Friday, August 12, 2011

If my sister goes into the nursing home, and only has a life insurance policy, will Medicaid take it?

My sister is in hospice, stage 4 cancer. She only gets her disability check at this point and does not own much of anything. If she goes into the nursing home and they take most of her check, will they also take her life insurance policy of $20,000 which is going to a family member upon her death?

Behaviour problems in year old mini labradoodle?

You bought her at a pet shop, you have a puppy mill dog. They are poorly bred and can have many problems, which as you have learned can be very trying at times. Most times they can be helped with their issues but usually you need professional help. I highly recommend a you contact a behaviorist and see what they recommend. Your vet will be able to guide you to the right people.

My ex cheated but i dont care?

my ex boyfriend cheated on me, with one of my friends who i have known my whole life. my dad cheated on my mum, and i was the one to discover that he was cheating. but my boyfriend cheating on me didn't effect me at all. i honestly don't even care! he was the one that dumped me if that's relevant. when i found out my dad was cheating on my mum it Absolutely tore me apart. i didn't know what to do, i started self abusing, my trust with everyone and everything was broken and i phoned child line several times, it still effects me now. but now i swear i don't care! why on earth did i care so much when it happened to my mum but when it happened to me didn't care? and yes i do care about him, i care about him a LOT we have gone out before.

How do I become a faster drummer?

I've been wanting to increse my drumming speed with my hands for fills and snare grooves etc. Just wondering how to come about this, and what sticks are best used for faster drumming.

Need to modify a part by changing straight grooves for helix?

I have a cylindrical part with grooves cut into it lengthwise the whole way around, 11 total. I need to make a part with the same size grooves, but rather than have them cut straight, i need them cut in a helix. I realize that due to the helix grooves taking up more surface area (parallelogram), I'm going to have to decrease the number of grooves to get the same width. I need to figure out what angle to cut the helix to get the same groove uniform. I need the angle of cut for a ten grooved helix part down to the smallest possible number. The dimensions are, in hundreths of an inch, cylinder diameter 2.19, cylinder length 2.06, groove width .46, groove depth .19, there is a small plateau between the grooves which is .08. I need the plateau's and the grooves of the new parts to be uniform which is why getting the correct angle is so important. Please show work. Thanks.

Why doesn't lil wayne start donating his blood and sweat to new rappers?

the rap game needs some new innovation and style it seems that the lil wayne is one of the few who is capable providing such creativity, style, and deep lyrics so new rappers should be given a lil wayne infusion. Hell, a lil wayne transfusion would even help some old rappers like Nas, Jay-Z, Ice Cube, and Dre remain relevant.

Outlook for Medical School?

Consider retaking the Govt class if there's no penalty to your GPA for retaking a class. (A penalty would be very unusual, as almost all universities want as much money as they can get.)

A cracked filling on one of my teeth?

Okay, so today, a part of my filling came out (If it's relevant, it was on one of my back molars). The spot where the filling came out though had been a bit sore whenever I chew on something since I got the filling, which was about two or three months ago. My brother checked it out and he said it looked cracked, but there was this sort of brown spot where the crack is. Is this normal?

What could be eating soap in my garden?

Are you sure it's not from rain or your sprinklers. The soap I use in my garden eventually develops grooves in it, but it's always from rain and or sprinklers. Don't know of any critter that would eat soap!

Regarding admission help for canada?

Victory University Offers you Bachelor, Associate, Master degree programs in both Campus and Online programs. See more on source

Can someone in the USA measure a pop bottle thread for me?

I live outside the US and I want to know the measurements of a male thread on a typical pop bottle such as coke. If someone has a set of calipers if you could give me the measurements of the outside of the thread (major), and the root (minor), and if you can measure the pitch too that would be great. The pitch is: "The distance from one thread groove to the next, measured from crest to crest." So the same point on the two thread. Thanks.

Something absolutely terrifying happened a while back and i need some help to figure out what it was?

Its just as well you did not open that door as it is obvious they intended great harm to you and possibly grandma. By the way, have you ever considered writing a book? You write very well !

Nuva Ring in the right place? How do you know?

There's only one place it can really go. If you can't feel it, it's probably in right. If it's too low you will feel it and it will feel like it's going to pop out.

Whose fault is this? I have overcome my wife being in touch with her ex which had happened 4 years ago,?

however she keeps on making him relevant by lying that she is not in contact with him but actually contacting him. I found out that she aactually met with him but lied to me that she is not in contact with him. When I bring up the issue, she accuses me of not letting her initial contact with him which was four years ago, go.?

Why is California better than Hawaii?

I see that almost everyone says California is way better than Hawaii, but why? No ones gives any real reasons, and since I'm moving to Hawaii in a few months. I'd really like some reasons why California is so preferred (not just the weather). If anyone has LIVED in both states, your input is the most relevant and I have never visited to CA or HI. THANK YOU!

What is the minimum distance between the grooves in an experiment of Young?

Illuminated with coherent light of any wavelength, two narrow slits separated by d. If d is below a certain minimum value is? Why?

What subjects should I choose in year 11 to become a civil engineer?

Just wanting to get some reccomendations on the subjects I should choose for year 11, I live in Australia which isn't relevant.

Which RAF career is right for me? I have a degree but there's barely anything available.?

Perhaps you can get the answers you seek by asking your questions in the United Kingdom Yahoo!Answers site, a link to which is located near the bottom of this page.

Is there any way to protect my fingers when chalking? ?

I've been doing various sidewalk chalk pictures, and in order to get the color to look solid I have to rub it into the sidewalk using my fingers. Due to the friction and different grooves in the sidewalk my fingers get all torn up. I've tried using gloves, but it fades the chalk and doesn't work. Is there anything at all that I can do to protect my poor fingers? Pleeease help!

What is the average cost-per-hour for a care giver?

My neighbor(mid 50s) has an 85 year old mother who is having health issues and is on hospice. She needs someone to be available 24/7...not necessarily a nurse (because she refuses to take medicine) but someone who could call for help if she fell or bring her some water. My neighbor has called on me a few times and the last time i stayed with her mom while she went out for a "girls night". I was there from 6-9pm, three hours. She asked me if 15 dollars was okay becuase she "wasnt sure" what was acceptable these days (5 dollars an hour). I told her that it was fine (assuming it was a one time deal). She has since then called me and asked me to watch her mother from 8am-6pm on a saturday, i figured $50 was better than nothing, she then went on to tell me she was going to pay me $30 (for 10 hours) after i had already agreed to do it. Im not a professional care giver, but i fee like anything less that minimun wage is too little, am i correct? Five dollars seemed low but three just seems like im being taken advantage of. How should i go about letting her know i will either have to stop watching her mother for her, or she pays me more?

I was accused of ordering the removal of the feeding tube of my mother-in-law.?

My 94 yrs.old mother-in-law had a major stroke. She was already given a morphine drip for at least 10+ hours and was in a "dying process." My brother-in-laws all came up and accused me of telling the doctor to take out the feeding tube from her nose. The doctor never asked me, she had mentioned on the previous day that it should be done because her body had already shut down and she didn't need any more fluid in her body. She was barely breathing, and she would die within 24 hours. My husband actually swung at them because he was present when the doctor asked his older brother. They said if I didn't tell the doctor, she would be alive and they can move her to hospice care and she can stay longer with them. This angered my husband and I so much, now my husband won't go to his Mom's funeral because he fears he will lose his temper during the ceremony. I'm so angry I can barely function or sleep. It hurts deeply because we've always taken care of her. Most of our activities evolves around her even when she's in the nursing home. We'd visit her almost every other month or whenever the kids have more than 2 days weekend. I wrote emails explaining to them but they refused to read it. They still say it's my fault that she died. Can I sue them for wrongly accusing me because now everyone in his family is mad with me, and refuses to talk to us. I want to clear myself because it's unfair for them to listen to one person and accused me for something I didn't do.

How hard is it to drop my 5K time from 18:26 to 17:30?

If you can run around a 4:55 mile then it should be fairly easy in my opinion if you have the endurance to get under 18. I run around a 5:15 mile and run 19:00 easy this year so you can do the math and 20 second faster mile x 3 miles = 1 min so 18 easy so maybe 17:30? Get in shape by doing lots of distance and 3 days a week core and rest

My mom is putting everyone's needs before mine?

Okay, so I'm 13, just thought I should start out with that. My family has been in a really hard time. My grandma had been on hospice since April 3rd, until May 3rd when she passed away. That entire time my mom, my aunt, and my uncle have been living there with my grandma and papa. Now, i understand that but, my mom has been completely neglecting me. Now I'm not living alone, Mia has been here who is our roommate. She's been like an aunt to my and has lived here my entire life. But my mom hasn't bought me food this entire time, and Mia was off work for a month because of pneumonia. And she doesn't have the money to buy food for the both of us. My mom and I are going grocery shopping tomorrow morning, but I recently found out we only have 50 dollars on our food stamp card. We should have about 240. And for this whole time I would expect that it might be down to 180 or so, but 50?! She apparently bought Christmas ornaments and a much of other Sh** from my papa and repayed him in food stamps. I think thats totally ridiculous and unfair to me. She hasn't moved back from my papa's for these 2 weeks after my grandma passed. I cant stand this, I need f***i*ng food!! What do i do??

Stories from caregivers while experiencing their elderly family member die?

my grandfather is dying i found a few stories from hospice patients families who were their caregivers that died and was wondering if there were anymore out there online ( not a book) i know it may sound morbid but i found them comforting ( being his main caregiver) to hear others stories

Who's going to help me finding these?

I sent you a message on yahoo regarding this, since I can't email you through your profile and I don't allow it through mine either. I hope you got it, and if not, I added you to my friends list on there for now till I get in contact with you.

Broken CFL light bulb. Dangerous?

Put it in a jar and close it with a lid. Plastic bags wont contain the mercury vapour. Take it to a hazardous waste disposal or recycling facility in your area when you have a chance. Don't put it in the trash. This article from Scientific American is helpful:

Can i seek legal action?

My uncle has ALS and needs everyday attention for his needs at home, which is ok for the matter that he would have 1 to 2 years left at the least as he continues to get the right help at home, his caretaker is his wife but she is unable to do it as she had surgery herself, so they setup a so called plan with a nearby hospice, where they would give her a 5 day break from the caretaking, while in the meantime his wife trys to find alternative help after hes released in the 5 days. Now while he is at the hospice, hes in some pain from the ALS, so they give him some medicine which i truly believe is a form of morphine, which knocks him in a vegetable state for the most part. The pain medicine he takes at his house does the job for his pain and there was no need for him to need morphine at the hospice ( the hospice did say he was taking the same meds as he was taking at the house, which is a lie because whatever they gave him put him in a vegetable state) , and thus he is in this vegetable state, he only eats once i think, since they cant give him any ivy or he instantly dies, well nonetheless he was only there 3 days and they call us saying he passed away. Now i know they did something there that killed him as he was not on his way out, he was only there because to give his wife a 5 day break from caregiving. I would bet all my money that they gave him a form of morphine which he did not need and of which destroyed him during his 3 days there, and when i say a vegetable state, i mean completly out of it, cant eat, etc. Does it sound like i have a good case, and that i can seek legal action against this hospice?

Should I report my sister to CPS for giving marijuana to her son?

He has cancer, and she CLAIMS it is helping - but how can getting your child addicted to drugs help him? She CLAIMS his doctor and hospice recommended it. Right! I don't believe that for an instant.

Where does the money that is collected from sales at Hospice thrift stores go.?

I know that Hospice care is paid for by Medicare and other insurance's, and I know that people that need Hospice care and don't have health insurance or can't qualify for Medicare can apply for Medical. So that is my question. When you shop at these Hospice thrift stores, where is the money going, and who is it going to?

Please answer...What should I do?

I am 23 years old, almost 24 and I am a caregiver for my elderly grandmother. Also, I am newly engaged. My fiancee who lives about 1 - 1 1/2 hours away has been frequently talking about having a baby. I don't work since I care for my grandmother but my fiancee makes more than enough income to care for a home, me and a new baby. My issue is I don't want to wait until I'm nearly 30 or older to have a child and re-start my life. I do have plans to start a career in the future but my grandmother is my main concern right now. Also, my grandmother is on hospice services. Therefore, a nurse can tend to her needs when requested. My fiancee and I don't plan on getting married for another year or so. However, he did bring up the idea of my grandmother moving in with us because a nursing home is not an option. Also, I'm not rushing or hoping for my grandmother to pass away but I don't want to get married and 3 years or so into the marriage we still don't have a baby. This situation is making me feel as if I need to choose who and what is more important to me. How can I handle this situation without my family members thinking I want to get pregnant to get away from caring for my grandmother?

What resources are there for people dealing with death?

Time is the main resource. Time heals everything. You have to get through the experience. That can't be avoided. There are good moments and very bad moments. People being nice and giving condolences is one thing, the actual burial service and all that is always painful.

Question about Congestive Heart Failure?

My husband's grandmother is 85 years old and we living in a nursing home due to severe confusion and dementia. We live in TN and she lives in OH so we aren't there to talk to the doctors. Her son sends us emails very frequently to update us on her condition and we just recently found out that she has fluid around her heart and lungs and is in the later stages of congestive heart failure. Her son has called hospice in along with her care at the nursing home. He said she is currently on medication for the fluid but it will eventually quit working and there will be nothing that they can do for her! We are very close to her and my husband and I are beside ourselves worrying how long she has left but we do not have the heart to ask his uncle how long they think she has left. Does anyone have any experience with this? Or how long she may have left? Thank you so much!!!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

How rapid does Cancer and COPD progress in the last stages?

Sorry, but we are in no position to second guess the treating physician who has all the information and we know nothing including what kind of cancer she has. If you do not believe him get a second opinion.

Kidney and Liver Failure?

My grandfather has Alzheimers. We recently found out his kidneys/liver were/was failing. This is a result of the Alzheimers. Hospice said 6 months. Does this sound right? How long do you personally think he has?

Would you believe that the Bohemian Groove really exist if the MSM report it?

I ask because they did report: http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/blogpost/post/bohemian-grove-where-the-rich-and-powerful-go-to-misbehave/2011/06/15/AGPV1sVH_blog.html

Electric guitars: What is the piece where the strings lay going to the fretboard?

Coming from the tuning pegs, their is a resting piece that has a groove for all 6 strings to lay on, on their way to the fretboard. If you go to the pickups, you've went way to far. On cheaper guitars, it is a cheap piece of usually white plastic. How can I get a left handed one to put on a right handed guitar?

Good water filter bottle? or water filter on the go.?

I would definitely go with a good water filter bottle. i had one this year it was really helpful when i was away from home because I don't really like to drink out of the tap either

Haven't worked out in a while....any advice?

Start slow, very slow, work your way 10% harder each week until after a month you are ready for an intense workout.

Did old muzzle loading guns have more power and velocity than modern guns?

Did Old muzzle loading guns like muskets, blunderbuss, etc have more velocity and power than the bullet cartridge type guns? I know old muzzle loaders were extremely inaccurate, but was it because it was basically a handheld cannon? When modern bullets were introduced did it reduce power but gain accuracy? Or are modern bullets all around better than ever grooved barrel muzzle loaders?

Question about bed sores?

I am so sorry that your aunt is going trough this. I have been in the situation with bed sore or decuti.My son was having several episodes in the past. He is paralized from the waist down and weighed about 140#. very thin for a man who is almost 6" tall. It was baisclly bone on skin in back. He had severa episodes and surgeries on them till his skin finnaly tougened up. He has been good at assessing his skin. No more bed sore. Again I am so sorry for you predicament. The best cure for bed sores is prevention and constant assessmemt.

Does anyone have any ideas for 'Mother's Day' who have cancer? (home crafts)?

A mom who is in her 50s has Breast Cancer. She is now under Hospice care in our home. She can talk, but can't walk anymore. Are there any ideas of crafts I can make at home?

Just a quick question?

I guess you can say that Im going to ask about if these are signs of loyalty and faith in mine and my GF's relationship see she went camping with her friends this weekend and i myself attended a friends birthday party and passed out but that aside; both of us are in an LDR we have been together physically beforehand as she was born and raised here in the Philippines and I currently am finishing my studies here to get my degree in nursing. Well last night I didn't get to talk to her when she was on skype because she was talking with her family and of course as any filipino or anyone in the filipino culture would know its family first before anything at all ever once again not relevant im going off on tangents but building up to my point quickly. She said she'll talk to me later which is understandable as I had just hopped on to tell her hello and I love her because I was about to head out to my friends B-day party. She calls me 2 am my time which would be roughly 8:30 pm in Norway where she currently is at and says "Hi Honey I just wanted to tell you that we are here at the campsite now; where are you now are you at home? " I then told her no Im at my friends party. She seemed to be bothered a bit by the fact that i got Drunk and passed out prior to when she called but upon the closure of the phone call she says " Have fun honey I miss you so much love you and take care when you go home be careful ok Bye bye " Im just wondering if her calling is a sign of trust,caring, loyalty and faith.

Looking to start a small business but need ideas?

I got it, Fund Raiser Consultant. Go around to all the non-profit organizations such as churches and other places that need to raise funds and organize events that will generate income for them. Learn about it, learn the laws, maybe get a job with someone who does it so you can learn how it's done first. Another is business organization expert. If a business is having problems, you go in and study their procedures then recommend improvements to streamline operations. Again you have to learn how this is done. Hope I helped or at least put some more ideas in your head.

What are some good female-fronted metal bands (from the sub-genres)?

I really like Kittie (the only all-girl metal band I know), In This Moment, Nightwish, Shocker Stalin, Otep, The Agonist, Epica, and Flowing Tears.

I'm afraid to be confident. Yes, afraid...advise please it's negatively affecting my life.?

Try to bring out ur opinions strongly with great confidence but make it super sure they r fit to be correct even if anything goes wrong say without fear that everything is in ur hands(suppose) and if u cannot do it from inside just pretend initially and soon u will become confident and will show them whose the real boss

Christians, when did you think "wait... God is real!"?

Why dont you study other philosophies? There's nothing wrong with you seeing what's out there. You could just compose your own personal philosophy out of an ecclectic range of spiritual paths. The most important thing to realize is that our parents' religion is not necessarily ours, that what we must desire above any complex philosophical/religious system is truth itself, the bare naked truth, whatever it may bring, even if it makes us uncomfortable. Best of luck to you!

Halo 4 plot. And halo ce...?

Ok so quick question for everyone who's played every relevant halo game (I.e. Not halo wars), what is going to be/ or possibly going to be the plot of halo 4. And also in the 10th anniversary edition of halo combat evolved, is it going to be an exact copy of the original with a face lift, or are there going to be slight changes in the actual game?

Can anyone help me understand?

I just lost my father to COPD. I took care of him at home for 2 months til his final breath on 4/20/2011 @ 5:00am. I was there til the end as his Hospice caregiver. I am the oldest of 4. I have not cried once yet. I have teared up, but not fully let go of my emotions. My father always taught me to be strong. I am now fighting depression, and I feel like I am losing. I had a good relationship with my dad and was always there for him and vica versa, I do feel closer to my mother, she has always been there for me. I can't imagine the pain if I was to loose her. So maybe this is a stage of denial, or just selfishness im not sure. But I hope it passes so I can go on with my life. I'm afraid this is gonna effect my marriage also. Is there anyone with some good strong advise?

My father was crossing the street and was hit by a car, and isnt going to make it. can i sue?

Were in the hospice house now just waiting for my father to pass. He's going to die as a direct result from this accident. The police report said she was "adjusting vehicle controls" when she hit him. She was going 30 in a 25 mph zone when she struck him. On the report the Drug column was checked yes (for her). Can I sue? Any suggestions of lawyers in Bristol Tn or VA that will only charge me if I win? I don't have money to afford anything really. If I can sue how much should I sue for?

Is being a CFA relevant in zimbabwe or SA?

i am stuck between the 2 choices of studying to be a CA or a CFA. The CA route is tidious in that i would have to do articles but i dont know how relevant the CFA qualification is especially in Zim or in SA.Help please :)

How to convince family that a nursing home is the best option for our parent?

If it is not practical for all of you to take turns taking care of him or agreeing on a home, in-house care sounds like the best option. He is being taken care of in his own home and everyone can come check on him. Its especially hard to convince your family to accept he is nearing his time and i do not suggest you try. Your more likely to convince your family to have a trained medical attendant to take care of him where they can check up on him regularly check on him to satisfy their concerns and give him professional care, rather then have him put in a home.

My tooth hurts still a week after dentist visit?

Don't worry , it will pass with time , it always happens with me when I go to the dentist , your tooth is just sensitive and it's just temporary , don't worry about it.

Help regards to getting a tax rebate from HMRC?

They don't rush anything unless it's taking money from you. If you told them your NI number they will be able to search. Phone them and ask how the checking is coming along............

Songs that are dirty/funny?

Pretty much any song by Blood on the Dance Floor. They're hilarious and disgusting. Look 'em up. I'm sure you'll like them.

Is hospice work difficult?

Hello, I am looking for volunteer programs and was wondering if hospice work was emotionally/mentally difficult.....I have no volunteer experience but this sounds rewarding although I don't want to get myself involved in something that might be considered pretty stressful......thank you.....

My mom is dying and I'm scared?

I'm 14 and mom is really sick with stomach cancer. The doctors have put her in hospice and said she doesn't have much time left. I'm taking it really hard. Me and my mom never had a good bond. Im the middle child so we argued a lot. I have so much regret. I haven't told anybody about it. It hurts too bad. I don't have a dad (he walked out on us) which means I don't know where I would live. I'm really scared. What should I do? How do I tell people or talk about it when the impossible does happen? How do I not have all this regret? How do I live without a mom? :'(

Is hospice work difficult?

Hello, I am looking for volunteer programs and was wondering if hospice work was emotionally/mentally difficult.....I have no volunteer experience but this sounds rewarding although I don't want to get myself involved in something that might be considered pretty stressful......thank you.....

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Tips on how to get into a good college with a low gpa?

I have a 2.6 overall highschool gpa. I volunteer at a hospice and have played a diverse amount of sports. I don't party and really do not do anything that has distracted me from school. I do not know what happened these past years, but now I realize that I need to get my game together. Its the 4th marking period of my junior year. I got A's B's and C's this year, yeah, not too good, but I checked online, and this marking period I have all A's ..SO FAR. I'm gonna keep it up. SATS are coming, my goal is a 2000 or higher. I'm preparing for it and am suppaaa confident loll! I know what colleges I am applying to, 1. University of Delaware 2. Delaware tech community college 3. Penn state main campus 4. Penn State brandywine and plan on speaking to delawares admissions and visiting both penn state and delaware. I already know what I plan on pursuing in a careeer. Either hotel management, dental school, or nursing. I am going to get straight a's all next year (senior year) Do I have a shot at reaching a 3.2 or higher by the time I start applying to these schools? What are some tips somebody like me with a dilema like this? How can I show these school that I can be a good addition to their schools? And that I just need a fresh start?

Is it possible to recover lost data from a hard disk?

I was using a hard disk, and needed to partition it. I also had a spare second hard disk (Model: Maxtor 2B020H1) which I hadnt been using for some years. So I thought I would use this spare hard disk to back up my data from the hard disk i needed to partition. I copied all the data (about 13 GB, mostly pictures) from first to the second hard disk. When I had finished partitioning, I connected the the spare MAXTOR hard disk again to copy back the data, but I was SHOCKED to see that it wasnt opening. I had saved the data on D drive, but now when I try to open it, a message shows up saying that I need to format it because it hasnt been formatted yet. And when I point the mouse on it, it also shows that the size of the data on it is 0 bytes!!! I am afraid that if I do format it, I will lose any chance of recovering the data. May be its also relevant to tell that I ran Windows CHKDSK on it i.e the D drive when I restarted the PC. Pls help. The data was very important.

Why do people try to argue that certain music is no longer "relevant"?

I notice a lot of professional and amateur music critics will often try to belittle certain artists/bands and genres/subgenres of music, arguing that they are no longer "relevant" or something along those lines. But as long as music is recorded and available for anyone to listen to, how can it not be relevant? You never know who might pick something up and get inspired by it. It just seems like a weak attempt to make someone's taste seem superior and everyone else's seem inferior. And who's to say that mainstream success/exposure equals relevance? Mainstream success is a very fickle thing.

Tips to keep PS3 cool?

Hey ! well I know what u meant talk abt overheat the ur Ps3 . if unless depend what u r doing example of like if u r doin everyday or all day play game PS3 can causing overheat become could will get worse problems also because of that like example of what u doin play ps3 like take easy limit it 2 or 3 hours then break time awhile that Ps3 will not get overheat countine on hot the overheat like almost same as Player Dvds is does have overheat too.. same every happen but I think advice should you try less play ps3 as possilby u should take play ps3 limit like 2 or 3 hour then stop need break while that ur ps3 will not get overheat like example all day countine play play till ps3 will get overheat bec too much use to play much causing ps3 overheat also it will become get problem and will it get NG PS3. i m serious advice u take easy on ur ps3 ok as my older halfSister is have too ps3 since 2 years now. that why what meant does overheat ps3 bc too much to use play all day or everyday ! U shld Take easy! plz. =)

What do more/less rifle barrel grooves do? What is a twist rate, and what does it do?

Rifling in the barrel causes spin on the bullet. It has a similar effect to throwing a football. The more tight the spiral on the football the farther it will go. The less spin, the more tumble. As they said before this the muskets tumbled, the football would tumble resulting in less distance. With twist rate on a rifle, i believe the higher the twist rate the more accurate the bullet will be closer. If you are shooting a far target, you want rifling, but not as much. Far targets would be about a mile. I hope i was correct and that this helps

Which is easier to play? Saxophone or Clarinet?

I'm going into sixth grade next year,and I've chosen to go in band.I already tried both all of the choices,and I'm vest at making a sound out of the Saxophone and the Clarinet.For 6th grade we only have like 4 concerts so I'm going to have a lot of time to practice in between those.I know that the Clarinet would be easier to carry around and everything and people say it's easier to play that,but the Saxophone is heavier to carry and I kinda wanna play anything that has a nice groove to the sound.And I'm going to need an answer quick because I have to meet the Marshals Music Company soon and he is going to fit me to one of those instruments so please which one?

Could it be white-line disease:/ If Gallop or anyone else knows about this please help me out!?

It's been rainy and muddy around here in my horses pasture. I've been trying to pick out her hooves even more frequently than usual to prevent thrush or other disease to the hooves. Today when I was picking out her hooves the area near the bars/seat-of-corn/white line (it was a triangular section in the groove of the hoof) started chipping when I was picking out the grooves of the bar. It was white underneath when It chipped and the white line, started getting more pronounced as I cleaned out the hoof. Alot of junk was coming out of there, but the white line continued to stay brown in color. I'm concerned. The farrier came out and trimmed them awhile back, but she's due for another trim later on this month. When the farrier came (she hadn't had REGULAR hoof care before this so I didn't know what to expect).I had to pull her shoes off myself, and I was worried that I hadn't helped her make the transition as well as I should because I wasn't experienced in those things. Her hooves were completely healthy though.. only thing the farrier had to do was trim her front toes which had gotten long. There were a few ridges in her hooves that he couldn't rasp out (too close to the coronary band). He suggested I put her on horseshoer's secret to grow the hooves out so he could rasp out the ridges quicker. He had said that she had early stages of laminitis in her hooves.. she was FAT before I got her, and has lost a considerable amount of weight, now she's in perfect shape. He said that we wouldn't have to worry about this because it was almost definitly from when she was a fatty, and there wasn't much fibery tissue there:P I have been giving her baths lately.. to sooth her from the flies and mud. She's been getting the horseshoer's secret everyday (the exact amount it says to give her) and she also gets a small scoop of safechoice horse feed with that. These amounts were all recommended by my farrier. Since it's so muddy, the grass hasn't had alot of progress.. so she still gets hay, and she picks around on shoots of grass out in the pasture too. She hasn't been ridden much lately, and now I don't know if I should ride her. She can walk/trot/canter without any noticeable problems. Could this be early signs of white line? Or am I over-reacting.. and it's just a little chipping? Trying to get the farrier on the phone.. but I was wondering what ya'll think I'm up against:/

He has no one he is homeless bipolar schizophrenia?

he is mildly retarded and has full blown AIDS i don't know alot about aids but his face is peeling bad he has the purple spots very skinny horse voice his t cell count is 103 and isnt on any of his medicines at what stage is he do i look for a hospital or a hospice my heart is broke and i need help please respond

Why do people feel the necessity to reply to questions with out actually answering.?

It seems as if there are more stupid people than there are intelligent people. I tried asking if it was safe to feed my kitty a store bought mushroom we were gonna cook in stew yesterday and I got an answer having to do with a guy using drugs in his butt. Weird right? Needless to say, I never gave my kitty that mushroom.

My grandma is a hospice patient and I am wondering if this is normal.?

Yes. This is very normal and her body's way of preparing to die. The body will give her a boost of energy during her last days.

How can i cope with the stress i have now....?

just lately my grandmother has become faily ill she isnt recovering and we had to get hospice last week everyone is so certain that she is going to die soon they said it could be weeks and even days but i cant accept that its just too soon she is 100 years old and everyone keeps telling me to talk to a social services person but i dont want to talk to a complete stranger i think its retarded my mom seems like the one who would do that go to a therapist and just cry cry cry i cant i refuse to go and talk to a complete stranger. there is too much stress in my life right now and i really dont need this ****.

Long distance relationship question...?

I'm dating someone in another state. We used to talk/text all the time. He's having a really stressful time because his grandfather was put in hospice, the family is fighting and apparently more focused on fighting than being there for his grandfather. Needless to say, a lot of the responsibility is resting on him, to take care of his grandfather in his last few days. I get that that must be hard to deal with. I myself, and dealing with a lot of stress with my family. I used to talk to him about it, and he would listen, make me laugh etc. Well, with all the grandfather dealings, he doesn't call, text or anything. He says it's a very tough time for him right now, and that he has to put me on the back burner. He just doesn't have the will power to want to talk to anyone. He has an "eff the world" attitude towards everything. He says that I'm the one he wants to be with, but he's stressed to the max. Is this normal? I'm the kind of person that when I'm stressed, I want to talk to people I care about. I just feel like it's selfish of him, but then I think that maybe I'm selfish to think the way I am given his situation. Should I sacrifice not being able to share my ups and downs with the person I care about, because he doesn't feel like talking? Hoping someone can help shed some light!

How to clear my system of THC?

I've finally been hired. With the holiday weekend coming up, it'll take about a week for my background check to go through. Then I got drugged test immediately after. I smoked Saturday night. Please, no lectures! It was my first time ever, and it was incredibly bad timing. By the time I get tested, it'll have been about 10-11 days. Having that in mind, and that it was only one time, what can I do to clear my system of the THC? I'll buy anything if it's necessary, but I'd rather not. I don't know if it's relevant or not, but I'm 16 and about 100 lbs. Also, I don't know if it's a saliva or urine test. Thanks so much.

I find it difficult to be happy, unless I'm in a good relationship. How do I change this?

Dealing with your codependency can help alleviate and fix some of your feelings. I am also codependent and I found relief in the rooms of Al Anon. In the text of some of their literature it describes the relationship typical for someone in love with an alcoholic or drug addict. While you may not fit this profile, some of the same characteristics you discuss are often displayed in these type of relationships. IF this is your problem, then the solution will be made available to you in the rooms. Good Luck

Breast Reduction covered by insurance?

I have been suffering with major shoulder and upper back pain, have grooves in my shoulders due to my bra straps and have even developed minor scoliosis due to my breast size, as well as the emotional tole it has done. It is so discouraging trying to find clothing and it sends me into a deeper depression than i'm already in. I have been wearing a DDD bra since I was 13, I'm 16 now. I have already been accustomed to the social aspect as well, people making fun of you and guys not staring at your face but your chest and making stupid remarks. I do hope that a breast reduction would help but I have no money to pay for it. Do you believe I would be a case that insurance companies would pay to have it done for me or no? Serious answers only please. Thank you.

I can't accesses my email and worst of all I contacted customer care and didn't get help ?

You can fix this since you did nothing wrong. Go to the Suggestion Board (hover over ABOUT at the top of this page) and explain what happened. They will help you get your account back.

My car has a deep scrape on the bumper, is there any type of material I can use to fill in the scratch?

A truck backed into my bumper and now there is a scratch/groove. It actually looks like some guy with a big finger scraped a small piece of my bumper off. Anyways, I was wondering if they sold some type of material specifically used to repair this type of damage so I can fix it and repaint the area.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

It's hard for me to handle this? ?

I think the reason they're ignoring you is because they think you need some space for your loss.I'm sorry to hear this maybe talk to them how you feel?

Which should I get as my next tattoo and where?

that sound like a cool place to have them, i don't know if you should have a vine or rope or anything connecting them though...but that would be your decision.

Help! Are these 3 sentences correct?

They are all technically correct, although #2 would be clearer as "I met her when she was spending the last days of her life in a hospice".

What are the ed requirments for a hospice nurse?

what are the education requirements or just requirments to become a hospice nurse?? and what is the average salary????

What do you think this means?

It sounds to me like he means he isnt trying to have get you pregnant, but that if you end up pregnant it wouldnt be a bad thing.

I have been having a dull achey chest pain for about 24 hours that gets worse when I move my neck or raise my?

I have been having a dull achey chest pain for about 24 hours that gets worse when I move my neck or raise my arms. I have also dealt with bulimia for about 3 years, so that is probably relevant. If this ache continues, at what point should I see the doctor to get it checked out?

Why can I only sleep at sunrise?

For the past few weeks I have only been able to fall asleep at sunrise. What bothers me the most is that I have not changed my eating habits or have any more stress that I ever have had which is what my doctors have told me what might be the top causes of my sudden change in sleep pattern. I have also been having really bizarre dreams that are heavily based on reality, as if i am experiencing another day within the day I have already been through. The only difference is every thing looks slightly distorted like looking through clear, stationary water. I am not sure if that has any relation to my change in sleep pattern but I thought it might be relevant to someone.

For college, is it possible to major in Psychology and minor in Hospice Care?

Never heard of hospice care as a minor, but I would google it. You really just need psychology, period.

Missing mum and dad too much??!!?

Please, go visit a therapist. Maybe you don't realize this, but it's not OK to be miserable every day, and to be scared all the time. You deserve a happy life, and happiness is not where your life is leading to right now. Therapists are professionals and they deal with people with similar problems daily. They will know how to help you. Look, you've done so much, you've been such a fighter and so helpful to those in need, even though it wasn't easy at all. Why should you suffer? It is so unfair. Noble people like you deserve better. Please, don't spend one more day in pain. You don't deserve it! And you will see, as soon as you talk to someone, after that first session, you will feel much better, and everything will be OK. A therapist can show you how to look at the bright side of life and how to deal with the difficulties. Just remember: you've helped so much, you deserve a somebody to help you a little to be better :)

Brown Lines/ Spots in The Grooves of my Back Molars?

On Tuesday I was shining the flash light on my mobile phone in my mouth ( as you do lol) and I noticed this little brown line in the groove on my very back molar on one side and a couple of tiny, pinprick brown spots on the other side. My teeth haven't looked any different than before and you can only see the brown stuff when I shine a bright light in my mouth. They don't hurt or feel sensitive. Its quite a faint brown colour. I had the 2 molars in front of these taken out in march for my brace and nothing was mentioned about it then. I had an x ray at the end of february in that area on both sides of my mouth and there was no sign of decay then. Also I went to the orthodontist on wednesday he he was attaching the wire to the very back teeth and didn't say anything about it. I brush my teeth for three minutes twice a day and use cavity protection mouthwash. Is it possible that they are cavities?

Frustration on looking back at my life so far?

You're lucky you realised this early, you have time to change your life and there is nothing wrong with it so far so no reason to be too worried. Just concentrate on doing the things you think are important.

What do you think of my answer to this question + wq?

I agree with everything you said exept Ric Flair becoming champion I would rather have Christopher Danials win it since he has never won it after many years in TNA.

Making a shed 16'x10, should I put it on 2-4x4 skids or 5 pier blocks, 4 in the corners, 2 on the sides?

I like how skids distribute the weight better, but wouldnt the concrete blocks last longer, more than the pressure treated skids that would be touching the ground? Also we have cooold winters up here, Wont be using 4x4s vertically at the corners just 2x6's connecting and 90 degrees in the pier grooves.

Cement sheets in the bedroom wall - any ideas?

hi my daughters room has cement sheeting (panels) that make up her walls and roof and it looks really bad. I can see the joining lines even though its been painted over - do i have to remove all the walls and have the walls re plastered? is there any handy hits to fix this up? not sure you could putty up the lines and sand back as the boards currently up have big grooves - i did think about wood paneling around the room but you would still have the roof issue and the board lines above the panels - looking for a cost effective solution. Thanks heaps

Contract replacement within the Navy?

Don't sign the contract if it's not the job you want, unless you would be happy with that job if they couldn't switch your job later. You don't want to get stuck doing nukes for 6 years if you wouldn't like it at all. Your recruiter cannot guarantee that your contract will get changed later, even with a better pst score.

Is it possible for an illegal immigrant to do voluntary work?

Yeah if they can work here illegally then I'm pretty sure they can do voluntary work, but at any medical place they're going to for sure undergo a background check.

Organizational tips for childrens home library?

We have our books sorted by topic, or series. Our series collections are alphabetical by author's last name. For example we have all the DK books in one place and all the Osborne books in one place. They usually have the topic written on the side. (We don't have them with the front facing out- just shelved). There are some labels on certain things. We have a HUGE collection of autism resources (we should start an autism book store, I swear) and it is labelled with dates because autism research goes gets old really fast. Certain other books have labels on the shelves too. We haven't cataloged them though. I don't see the point really because I can find things easily.

Did Hospice Kill My Dad with Morphine?

Yes they can go quite quickly like that. The morphine did not cause his death.The main goal in palliative care is comfort for the patient.5mg every 2-3 hours is quite acceptable. It is not only used for pain but for respiratory distress as well.

My grandma is in a nursing home and wants to come home, we want her home. they wont let her come home.......?

Well I took care of my grandma for 4 months after we found out she is in critical condition. The nurse through hospice reccomended respite for a week. Gma ended up being SENT to a nursing home? And shes been there a month. I keep trying to get her home but to no avail, my dad too. He has power of attorney. What to do?

Songs with a similar sound/groove to "Serenity" & "Voodoo" by Godsmack & "Would" by Alice in Chains?

I'm looking for some rock songs that have a deep bass, trance-like groove to them in the same style as "Serenity" & "Voodoo" by Godsmack & "Would" by Alice in Chains.

Health interfering with job...?

Hi...I work for hospice and I love what I do,... But lately I have been in so much pain and I may be suffering from a muscle disease or something becuz all of my muscles are inflammated and leave me in horrible pain..oh yeah pain meds don't work either...well my patients are seeing a different side of me...I don't stay with them as long and they feel that I act completely different..how can I change this becuz I love my job and I want to go back to bein that sweet person I always been...thx 4 the advice

Getting into medical school?

I'm a college freshman, majoring in Chemistry. My grade point average is a 3.46, I volunteer at hospice, have a great premed advisor, have mentors who are both doctors, and work full-time. Yet, I am still really nervous that I am not doing enough to get myself accepted into medical school when the time comes. Does anyone have any suggestions on what else I should pick up, or any other career options I may be able to follow with a bachelor's in Chemistry, in case I don't get into Medical School?

What is wrong with my uncle?

Get a family cousalor. It's the best thing you can do right now. You're in a very hard situation and I feel for you. Even if I'm 13. But I still think I'm pretty smart. ._. Anyway, yeah. Try to get someone to talk to your family.

Does anyone care on any level that a Hotel was attacked in Kabul, Afgh?

I really don't care at all. Not one bit- not even about the people that were killed. I simply do not care. It is not the United States or anywhere near us. I think the news just shows this stuff to scare us and keep the "war on terror" relevant.

How to lighten hair dye/color?

I really want a neon purple hair dye color but I can't find it anywhere. Can I use one of those mixer/toner things and lighten the colors? Most of the colors are too dark or don't have enough blue in them so I think if I lighten them maybe? I just want permanent neon purple dye! Thanks to all relevant answers

I NEED HELP WITH MY BIO FINAL!!?

we might just go to the same school :) i have the same final study guide. #39 is the transfer of energy from one trophic level to another is not 100% efficient. this is because energy is lost while moving from one trophic level to another; not the entire organism is consumed or digested and the movement/ trasportation of organisms (inside its body) use up energy... hope that helped.... it takes foreverrr to finish! lol good luck! :)

Rate my attractiveness please?

I was picked upon by girls at your age and told I wasn't good looking. So if you had incidents like that just know that girls can be very immature and cruel. On that scale of 1-10 you sit up near 8 or 9 The only way you can creep up a point is to add a little more muscle. This said if you just remain slim as you are now..you will find a great majority of those you are interested in will find you very attractive.

Mom is dying. Husband is being an ***. What do I do?

My mom is in hospice care and I am her caregiver. We only have a few weeks left with her so I am spending as much time with her as possible while balancing my time with my husband and children.. My husband is being an absolute ***. He has been in a horrible mood for days, yelling at the kids for little things and when I ask him to lighten up on them, he turns it on me. I try and talk to him about what I am feeling about my mom dying and he won't even turn off the tv to listen. All he seems concerned about is "what we will get" when she dies. She tried to give us her house and when I told him that would not be happening, he got really upset. I just don't have the energy to deal with his crap right now, what do I do?

How do i keep my rabbit happy?

ok so due to my rabbit,silver, being crespecular, its really hard for me to keep him happy because hes awake when i sleep and vice versa. just now i let him out for about 54 mins because ive been out all day. i even got him to sort've flop (he rarely flops). and on top of that it was on my carpet (he usually flops in his cage). he was really happy and cooperative but im really tired and had to put him back in his cage because i CANNOT for a fact trust him outside of his cage. just like a baby, hell do something wrong,look at me all innocent and do it again. and i cant even count how many wires he messed up. so basically, i dont have a backyard or anything and he cant be trusted outside of his cage. but he was so happy and good today. i gave him treats but im positive he was sad when i put him back in...any advice relevant to the question would help. thanks...

What's that narrow groove for in the bottom right hand corner of a laptop?

I don't know what make your laptop is, but on mine, it's the blank for inserting a lock, so you can lock the laptop to something with a tether- especially for display in a shop.

What do you think of my career idea involving both dance and psychology? How do you become a dance therapist?

Sounds like you need to investigate psychology programs that deal with art therapy. I have a friend who has been doing it for years. Instead of drawing or painting you would deal with dancing as a therapy form. It would be a great masters thesis and it could work and quite well I might add. Good Luck.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Divorced from dead spouse?

I get that he's from a different culture and all, but marriages are usually ended when one spouse dies. There's now no-one for your daughter to divorce, and it's even more ridiculous if the divorce is being initiated on his behalf.

TTC...How should I handle this situation?

I am 23 years old, almost 24 and I am a caregiver for my elderly grandmother. Also, I am newly engaged. My fiancee who lives about 1 - 1 1/2 hours away has been frequently talking about having a baby. I don't work since I care for my grandmother but my fiancee makes more than enough income to care for a home, me and a new baby. My issue is I don't want to wait until I'm nearly 30 or older to have a child and re-start my life. I do have plans to start a career in the future but my grandmother is my main concern right now. Also, my grandmother is on hospice services. Therefore, a nurse can tend to her needs when requested. How can I handle this situation without my family members thinking I want to become pregnant to get away from caring for my grandmother?

I want to be an airhostess?

Can you please tell me what i need to do like after secondary school, what kind of qualification would be handy and just relevant details please!??!!!!

What states have Hospice care covered under the Medicaid benefit?

I heard that 47 states offer Medicaid Hospice benefits, who does not? Where did you get your info? Thank you.

Why don't people ever consider bullying as a genuine reason for not wanting to be somewhere?

Yes. It can cause so many mental problems that can be hard to deal with. Rather than trying to wait for authority to handle it which can take a long time to act and usually be ineffective. It is just easier to leave the situation.

Organizational tips for childrens home library?

What I did with our bookshelfs is bought some of the name tags that you usually tape to a child's desk, and label them as "Reference" "Young Readers" "Young Adult" "Children" "Bible" and so forth. If you have more room you could label the Reference section into smaller sections, such as "Sewing" "Astronomy" "Gardening", etc. It would be a big project, ask the kids to help out and get it done in a weekend. Good luck!

I need your help to name something?

I make wallets that are mini wallets that fit bills unfolded, and 4 credit card pockets. The measurements when it is unfolded is 6 1/2 x 3 3/4" and i want to call them mini wallets, but no boy would buy a wallet called the mini wallet. Any suggestions on a cool name for a wallet? It doesn't have to be relevant just like axe isn't relevant to body wash. Just a cool catchy short name for a wallet. Thanks everyone!

What is the medical outcome of this?

Alright so to me this sounds fishy and like it was a fatal cocktail for my grandma. While at hospice, they gave her morphine (at a high enough dose that she sedated), ambien (while being sedated on morphine), and Ativan (again while she was sedated on the morphine). I would appreciate it if someone who is a nurse or doctor would comment and leave their position as their source. I would also appreciate if anyone had any similar experiences with a loved one at a hospice home. Thanks.

In the indy 500 race when jr was leading why didnt the lap car take the high line?

seems clear to me the slower car carrying less speed should either get way on the bottom or move up to the second grove.do you now by chance who caused jr to get out of the groove?

Why are ALL of my female friends extremely touchy with me?

Lots of times, girls have confused feelings about friends and boyfriends. I dunno, maybe they have some mixed feelings about you.

Could it be cancer? HELP!!!!?

To try and cut a long story short, I was having seriously excruciating pains in my side so I had scans and it showed a tumour on my gall bladder! Since then I have been having scans 1s a month to check the rate of growth, the doctor told me it is growing at an abnormal rate and is now bigger than the gall bladder itself! I am having my gall bladder completely taken out next week so they can do a biopsy on the tumour! I am only 20 and soooo scared as I haven't even had an operation before! I also volunteer at my local marie curie cancer hospice and see young people dieing of cancer on a daily basis, I am soo scared and don't no what to do! Could this realy be cancer? It seems so surreal! Thankyou for reading xx

Hospice living/time frame?

First of all, sorry to hear that. I think that it's best to listen to the doctor's who have been looking after him and are, after all, the experts. Things change and it may take longer or shorter than the doctors say. talk to them if you have any doubts and make sure you are kept up to date about his condition so you know what is coming and what to expect.

How much longer does a person have to live after the doctors say there is "nothing left we can do"?

My aunt is in the final stages of cirrhosis of the liver and is swollen almost three times her size. Her eyes are pretty much swollen shut and it seems like no matter how much blood she loses she still retains her other body fluids. The doctors told her and my family yesterday that they've done everything they could and she is going to die. They gave her the choice to die either in a hospice or at home. It's a very sad situation for my family and I understand her way of living with the bottle has resulted in these problems but I wanna know for sure how much longer she has. Will it be days or weeks longer that she has to suffer?

Cancer Please give me advice?

somone in my family has terminal cancer. I need to get them to start eating we have to spoon feed them. we tried everything i think. he's been in the hospital so there is nothing they can do. Hospice is comming but I dont think they will help much because they will only come once every two weeks. He has no energy to even eat, he can barley swallow. Is ther any food that cancer paintents like this will eat. We tried making his favorite foods, and soft foods, the doctors said the brain is tricking him into thinking that the food is "not edible" IS THERE A CERTAIN FOOD THAT WILL STIMULATE HIM AND MAKE HIM WANT MORE FOOD?

Stress eating: Grandpa is dying?

Just decide on what to eat those restaurant and be smart in your choices. Choose grilled chicken, salmon or steak with veggies and mashed potatoes. And keep exercising will help you in this stressful time. Take care and my prayers goes out to you.

I have new hearing aids, and wondering whether this is just me or the hearing aid?

Funny, I am studying speech pathology right now. I would definitely go back to your audiologist and explain what is going on as he/she will probably know the causes more than anyone else. Good luck to you. I can't wait to become a speech pathologist in a few years! :)

Poll: was she jealous?

Ok, me and this one girl were working together and this girl I like came over and was asking me random questions that weren't relevant and interrupted me practically. Everytime I talk to the girl she'd try and get my attention. Also, when she wanted me to work on a project with hero said I had to help that girl. She got mad and sarcastically said "well guess you don't care" was that her being jealous?

Need help with some knowledge of a medication?

When my mother was passing away from cancer, hospice had her on very potent medication. I had not discarded them as of yet. Well, unfortunately a friend (someone I thought was a friend) of mine stole them and replaced with something I'm not familiar with. I use my mobile for the internet and I'm having difficulty accessing any of the sites with a pill identifier. I would appreciate your help! Webmd.Com is usually pretty good. The markings on this pill is DF/7.5 ( one side being DF and the other 7.5 (Thank You So Much In Advance)

What do you think? Do I have a chance, should I worry?

Every single one of my cousins that live here in America have gone to the University of Delaware and became some type of succesful. My sister also went to UD. I'm scared out of my mind that I won't be even considered when I apply to UD this coming fall. I am a rising senior and part of this un-necessary stress is my fault, and my ignorance towards education itself. I never had a love for any of my teachers; I hated the way the teaching system worked. I had OK grades. Freshman and Sophomore year, I took all Honors classes and 1 or 2 College Prep. Junior year I took all honors and 2 AP classes. My unweighted GPA is a 3.0 and my weighted is around a 3.4. I ran track Freshman year and played soccer sophomore year. I volunteered at my schools community day, and also volunteer at a Hospice. I visit a 90 year old lady w/ dementia who is dieing soon. Its gonna be my third visit today, shes sweet but doesn't talk much..COOL. I want to play Volleyball my senior year, and I am involved in my schools choir. We got invited to London next year!! I want to join a club senior year, I'm not sure exactly what yet. Maybe yearbook. Or YELL (promotes safe driving) and I also signed up to do morning and afternoon anouncments senior year. (Counts as volunteer hours) What are my chances of getting into UD? And do you have any advice on what I should do to increase my chances of getting in? I WANT/NEED TO GET MY BUT INTO UD! My father will not pay tuition for school out of state, only instate which is UD. And he wants me to stay close. And I love UD's campus. My sister also loves the school. I write killer essays, and have awesome recomendations already. I'm planning to apply to jobs after I get back from my 1 month trip out of the country w/ my family. (I know 2 languages, English and Farsi...some spanish) I also am planning a visit to UD...will that help me?

What Chinese religion says that a nearby Hospice brings bad luck to attaining fortunes?

Fear of ghosts spawns protest against UBC hospice........This is taking place right now where game 2 of Stanley's Cup is tomorrow...But what Chinese religion is this belief associated with..? The Hospice is being built next to $1 million Condos all owned by Chinese who speak hardly any english...

I am 19 and my husband is 22 would I be able to get into a bar, not to drink, if we were together?

I'm in the state of Idaho so if that is relevant. Please help. I really just want to go see some live music!

Where and how much is it to relace a broken key?

I have a master key with a special thing in the groove of the key. I took it to home depot and they said they cannot copy it because of that groove. And now the key has broken (snapped cleanly in half) and I really need it fixed. Where can I get it fixed and or copied? And how much will it cost? I live in plano texas if that helps in helping me choose a location for fixing my problem.

Can a brain dead person live after being taken off life support?

My friend took a bunch of pills and had no heartbeat for 6 minutes. The docs said she was in a coma and then after doing tests said she had no brain activity. She was taken off life support and still has not yet passed. They are moving her to hospice. So I guess my question is if she was brain dead woudnt she have passed soon after being taken off life support?

Speedometer not working....GSXR 750 SRAD?

Hi, My speedo has now stopped working. Before this the needle was behaving erratically, reading 20mph when doing 60mph for example and then it would shoot up then go back down again but now its stopped working all together. Does this sound like I need to replace the speedo cable or the speedo sensor? Cheers for all relevant answers.

Sharp pains in my toes and fingers. 10 pts to best answer?

Its like little stings that last for a few seconds. Its annoying (p.s i also have had hives as soon as the shocks popped up i dunno if it is relevant... but help please)

What is the medical outcome of this?

It is appropriate and medically indicated for a patient to be prescribed all three of these medications. They are routinely given together, not just to terminally ill patients, but to any patient who is suffering from severe pain, anxiety and sleeplessness. Nevertheless, there can be no harm in asking to speak with someone from the hospice regarding your concerns.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Breast Reduction monday?!?

I don't know exactly how you feel, but my sister who is 19 got a breast reduction about a month/month and a half ago. She was a 30 EE. Same as you, very tiny, 5'3" about 120lbs. She was reduced to a big b/ small c and so far loves it. No regrets what so ever. Her scars are minimal, about an inch/2inches below the breast. One of the cons is following the surgery you cannot wear bras with underwire for quite some time, but other than that there is nothing to be worried about. Although you are still quite young and most people may tell you you'll grow into them, if you have very cold feet it could be best to wait a year or two. If your going to wait, something to take into consideration is that it is often hard to get back on the list for breast reduction (in canada) not sure about the U.S. Hope this helps!

214(B) Representing Strong Ties to your Country for US Visa?

Im having problems with getting a visa. The Interviewer told me she cant issue a visa because of 214(B). Im a student studying in Turkey i told her that and showed papers from my school but it didn't do much. She Told me a few examples to overcome this 214(B), A) get married B) Get a job here C) Own a house. Im a student i can't do any of those. Any other ways i could show strong ties to my country? My dads a business man don't know if that's relevant . Dont know if it will matter. I'm Want to go to the states to see my aunt.

Why was I asked this by the traffic cop?

Earlier this evening I was pulled over while returning home from a trip. The officer, in addition to asking to see my license, asked if there was a phone number I could be reached at in the event that they have any questions for me. I've gotten speeding tickets before, but no one was ever asked for my number. Why would the officer do that? And what questions could they possibly ask? I was driving with a valid license, my insurance is paid up, and my registration and inspection sticker are up to date. What else is there for them to inquire about? This incident occurred in Jefferson Parish, if I remember correctly, in Louisiana. Sorry, don't have the ticket right in front of me; it's still in the car. Don't know if it's relevant, but I just thought I'd mention it just in case.

Newly self employed, partner job seeking?

You can get lots of info about different jobs and how to find better job here - topjobs.iblogger.org

My nine year old went to the dentist recently and he missed a bad cavity. How is that possible?

It's only 2 months later and my daughter just noticed a 2mm groove in a molar! Wouldn't the dentist have sunk his pick into a soft tooth if he had checked thoroughly? Is a baby tooth of no concern? The guy had the nerve to charge $160 too!

Ladies i need you to answer this one!?

I have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now off and on. We have broken up twice, that might be relevant im not sure yet that is why im asking. Anyways my question, We used to have a very sexual lifestyle it used to be 3 sometimes 4 times a day for i don't know how long. Sometimes i had to tell her "babe im tired right now" And as of about 2 months ago im lucky if its twice a week. Im extremely frustrated with this and she barely lets me touch her, and sometimes when i go to kiss her she will pull her head away. And just today i told her last night i wanted to have a romantic night tonight, we were txting each other dirty all day long. I get off of work i go and buy steaks and stuff for a salad, plus tall candles for the dinner, I txt her to come over in an hour and apparently she has been sitting at the pool outside of her house drinking all day after she got off work and needs me to come get her or she isn't coming over. Thats the exact txt, whats going on?

If you have someone in a hospice situation, is it easier if the patient is in a downstair bedroom?

Play it by ear. If it was me I would use any room that was best suited in the house and make the necessary adjustments as it will obviously be a temporary situation. Many people use their dining rooms for a temporary "hospital room". Best wishes

After hours grooving music?

After the asker of this question grooved to music for hours, it is blatantly obvious that they took to much lsd. So, they go on yahoo answers, and waste my bandwidth with their poor excuse of a troll.

I really know little about r&b. lookin4recommendations based on this list of songs?

I know even less, however maybe try N'dea Davenport from Brand New Heavies or Alice Smith or Laura Izibor. Bill Withers if you want to kick it old school.

Tire has a indent line very small?

I went to mcdonalds today through the drive through and it was very narrow. I bumped the curb and felt it bump barely. However now there is a small indent on the tire that follows the lines of the side wall, is it dangerous to drive on this? I just got these new tires and really hope this one is not damaged, it's not super noticable but if you look at the tire close you can see a line going from the edge of the rim to the edge of the tire. It's not irregular shaped, or pushing outward just a slight inward groove. Anyone with some expertise on this? How much would it cost to repair? Can it be repaired?

Mom passed away a couple days ago, how long will i feel this sad?

15 years old, i used to have the perfect family but my mom started drinking and i ended up in a foster home. i tried to save her so many times, but i remember being little and her needing to be rrushed to the hospital because her liver was so bad but now i look back and i look at our messeges between each toher trying to set up visits but she would show up drunk and i didnt know what to do but i was so mean to her and now i feel horrible i thought i was helping her, she went to treatment so many times and right before she got really sick she was sober for 3months and was so proud becausee she went to AA but then she ended up in the hospital and i didnt know what to do. and she was in there for 5 months and she contracted a virus called ensuphulitus which attacks your brain and suffered from brain damage and memroy loss. i hated being with her in public but now looking back i feel horrible and sart cryiung. after she got out of ICU but her liver was so bad that she went into liver failure and the doctors said ther ewas nothing mroe they could do, her kidneys were failing now and she could talk to us, she was in a coma. she would open ehr eyes occasionly but she was moved to hospice last week. and i gave her a rock with 2 bears in it and it says i love you and iu gave it to her when i was 5 but then she gave it back to me and so i gave it to her the day she passed then later when she passed she was holding it.i just remember so many memories, camping, skating competitiions, singing in the car, vacations, and so much more. everyone tells me how much she loved me and i love ehr so much but i dont even know. she alwasy tried to get ahold of me but i never answered or gave her one word answers and before she went into a coma she told my step dad (i dont knoe my dad ) that she hopes i forgive her for ruining my life. and now i miss her so much and i cry everyday at least 8 times. i miss her so much and we had people staying with up and we made a shrine for my mom and the rock was there but then the 3 year old girl took it and put it somwhere, im so upset i dont know what to do. everyone is asking me if im okay and there therre for me. i miss her so much, before she passed i told her i forgave her and i hope she forgives me for being so horrible and how she deserved a better kid then me. but i look at pictures and miss her so much, i think how this wasnt supposed to happen, i love her so much but i was so horrible, and she tried so hard to get me back, and my step dad is a mess and i want to help him but i dont know how because i just cry. i want her back, any one please help me get through this. i miss her so so so much and i wish i couldve tried harder to save her and spend everyday with her loving her. just someone tell me how long im going to feel like this. i couldve saved her i tried so hard. but now shes gone forever.

My grandma is in hospice all she does is sleep all day does this mean she is close to the end?

yes sorry to hear about your grandma. If they put her in Hospice it means she is terminally ill. Her body is slowing down.

Car speaker wont fit?

i have galant 03 in which im installing after amrket speakers. thing is the groove is to big for my 6 1/2 speakers to fit it. how do i secure it in good

Hey I'm 15 what are my rights against CPS?

Hey recently my mom was falsly accused from a social worker. She reported her to Cps amd mow they want to interview me and check our house. But my grandpa is in hospice and he only has a few days left. So what should i do? I dont want them to take the little time i have from him away. Also what do i do i they try and take me from my mom? Do i have any rights then? Also we have caught them in several lies. Should we sue? Please answer ASAP

Feeling & seeing & hearing spirits also having alot a dreams help?

if you are christian go along to the spiritualist church choose the least threatening one that has a healing ministry and talk to people there they have ways of helping you with this power most run a teaching program and do work to help spirits over - My mother was a spiritualist getting in command of it is easier if someone who has been there shows you how to protect yourself.

I am having testicular pain. Is there any significant danger, and what should I do about it?

I am a 16 year old male, and I am having pain localized to the bottom of my left testicle. For a few months about a year and a half ago, I was having similar pain. While it was less severe, it was more frequent. After a while, it simply went away and i thought it was gone until about a week ago when the pain returned stronger than ever. Every other day or so, for the last week, i have had episodes of testicular pain (about a 6 on a scale of 1-10) that last about a minute, then go away. If i touch the bottom of my left testicle during an episode, the pain is significantly increased, but it does not hurt to the touch at any other time. I'm not sure if this is relevant or if this happens to everyone, but my testicles sometimes feel very sore after masturbating. I have done a bit of research, but nothing seems to quite fit my symptoms. I did see one website in which it was suggested that excessive masturbation could be the cause, but I masturbate once a day with rare exception, which would not be considered "excessive." Another website suggested a bacterial infection, but I have been on antibiotics multiple times over the last year for sinus infections, and I do not have a Fever or any other symptoms of infection, so that is pretty much ruled out. Some websites suggested that it may be an STD, but I am a virgin which rules that out. Another has been testicular torsion, which, as this has been inconsistent pain for more than a year, it seems unlikely. I have also come across testicular cancer as a possibility, but i checked and did not notice any abnormalities or differences between my two testicles. Additionally, there is absolutely no history of cancer in my family except for my grandmother who has lymphoma so mild that nothing needed to be done about it. Finally, there has been no potential injury to my testicles. Do you have any other ideas of what it could be? Do you think there is any significant immediate danger? Thank you so much.

Am i depressed or not>?

not at all.depressed people never actually knw wht de exactly feel.as u r expressing all ur feelings here u r certainly nt depressed rather u r fed up of something andmaking urself confused.very first throw out tht thought frm ur mind tht ur family has depression so u'll b hvng...and very frankly speaking visit doctor and open up ur feeling 2 him..

How can I delete inaccessible facebook posts?

Since you have already started a new FB page. What I can recommend you do is "print screen" that post and upload it to your new FB page. And a good advantage is that, you'll have a copy of that image to keep forever :)

Is it right for a Hospice nurse to encourage her terminally ill patient to smoke?

When my MIL was in hospice (breast cancer that had spread to the bowels and lungs) I would have gone out and bought crack-cocaine if I thought it would had made her happy and brought her comfort in her final hours. I miss her something terrible and would give a much to have her ask anything of me now.

Can a hospice caregiver be allowed to take care of a kid, DURING work?

No, I cannot imagine that this is allowed. But I would think that it would be the decision of the individual facility. However if the family of the seniors who reside there are complaining, I would think that something would be done.

Who sings the CCM song that has the chorus AMEN and the Lord's Prayer in it also?

the artist sounds like SWITCHFOOT and it's got a great groove. Trouble is, none of the radio stations I've heard it on announced the song title/artist!

Filling out a Section 21 notice - AST?

We always give 62 days notice just to cover ourselves. Gave 60 days notice before only to be told at the end of the two months that we should have given 60 FULL days so now we always give 62 :-)

Is it worrying that some of the aspects in Obama's healthcare bill mirror Hitlers in the 1930's?

There is a clause where every person on the bill has a counselling session every 5 years that tells them methods of effectively ending their life if they get seriously ill. How to under hydrate, hospices to attend, how to stop eating. This meeting is also arranged when people become seriously ill. This is effectively a death panel, the same as was used under nazi germany. The 500 million cut in healthcare means that some people, even though they are getting healthcare have not been accounted for. This also doubles up on Obama's eugenics plan. When are people going to wake up to this evil mans policies?

Can anyone help me identify this 70s or 80s song?

The lyrics are something like... "Tonight, tonight, groove me, come on and groove me tonight" I think "groove me" is the misheard lyric here. "Groove me" sounds more like "Rule it"

Why did vinyl records come back?

Vinyl records don't make any sense. Can you listen to it in your car or boombox? No. Hip is something you wear. I melted my records in 1987 and made them into salad bowls. I let my toddler finger paint on them. Everyone says "Oh records sound better." How much sound can you squeeze from a vinyl groove. Have mercy on the record and let them die a quiet death. Again.

How to stop morning nausea?

no not the pregnancy type, I'm 20 years old and started having morning nausea a few years ago, not long before I was diagnosed with anorexia, I don't know if it's relevant or not, but I noticed it's usually bad if I didn't have dinner in the night before, however I don't actually puke I just get bad nausea and lately it's been getting worse that it became difficult for me to brush my teeth in the morning without feeling like I'm about to puke and I'm too phobic about puking! so please help, is there anyway I can stop the nausea?

How to get into gaming groove?

Ive been playing mw2 for a while and was doing pretty well, getting all my killstreaks, then all of the sudden i cant do well in a match i think i got out of my groove. Is there anything that can helP me get good again?

So how exactly do YEC explain engravings that date WAY before they say the world was created?

The same way they deal with the vast array of proof for an earth that is over 4 billion years old, deny the evidence, ignorance evidence, and "la la la I'm not listening..."

Want to do a volunteer job?

Do you know of any volunteer jobs that I can do? Must be ok for age 13, in California in cities of Fremont, Morgan Hill, or San Jose or areas close. And also do they do hospice in any of these areas? Ive done the librarie b4 btw, for 2 months

Fundraising for rowcroft hospice ideas?

Me and a group of friends (there are 5 of us all together) we are going to be raising money for Rowcroft Hospice in Torbay, we are trying to raise a target amount of �1000, we have about 4p so far... we need fundraising ideas, the crazier the better, we dont want anything predictable like a fun run or carboots or anythinng like that... we need crazy "out there" ideas, (as long as it's legal).thanks!!!

I want to play more natural guitar... how?

I've been playing guitar for about a year now, and I've gotten pretty good at chord progression (of the ones I know which is about 20) And recognizing/executing notes. But I would really like to be able to play more by ear. My cousin just taught himself how to play, and he's awesome, but he can't read notes for his life. So I kindof want to move into a place where I can just pick up the guitar and groove out, without needing like a song book... What do I need to do to get to this point?

My dvd is stuck in my computer?! Please help!?

The dvd fell off the groove once it was in the computer and is now jamming the door stuck on my hard drive. What do I do? I can't get it out!

Saturday, August 6, 2011

I know I shouldn't have opened Pandora's IPO "box", but I did....what should I have done differently?

You probably should have invested in Facebook's IPO (In Ocotober). Plus Pandora was losing money before going public.

How can I get my scion tc seats clean?

I work in the deli at king soopers and I got flour gunk on the seat of my fiance's scion tc... I tried getting it all out but there is still a little left in the grooves in the fabric and I have to idea how to get it out!

Maths Behind Rockets?

I am doing a fairly extensive project on the mathematics behind sending a rocket into space, and plan to learn the theory and and explore or derive all relevant equations. I would appreciate an answer telling me what concepts/equations are related. Currently I know of escape velocity equation, and Newton's second law for variable mass. Anything to be added?

Schengen visa denied twice..?

I have applied last year for hungarian schengen visa in moscow,my application for rejected.This year i applied for Austria,again the result was the same.I had all the relevant details etc..but stil it got turned down.My question that in future if i apply for any other schengen visa,will my previous rejections affect my case..thank you

How to cure eczema on my hands and fingers?

Have a look at my blog at a href="http://eczemafix.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow"http://eczemafix.blogspot.com/a . Here you will find the cause of eczema, the mechanism of its spread and cure. In summary, you need to specifically attrition the infected cells. The best cure I have found is spending 4 days at a warm beach. Ground mangosteen skins have great properties as well in controlling and cleaning infected areas. There may also be other cures based on specific attritioning of infected cells (sulfer baths/mineral baths/mud baths - if in a cold climate). Very strong tea also has the effect of providing a non-painful cleaning of eruptions and flare ups but does not root out infected dormant cells.

Dads funeral how hard is it going to be?

i say you cry it out. this is a moment where a family comes together. there is no need to be strong and make ppl think your strong.. let them see your emotions and how sad you are becasue you loved your father. cry and let it out becasue a funeral is for family support as well as a see ya later. dont hold it in hun as it can affect you in the future.

Skateboard - Degree / Course at UK University?

I am fanatical about skateboarding and would like to take a university degree/course in the UK which would be relevant. The University of Plymouth offers a BSc (Hons) Surf Science and Technology; is there a skateboarding equivalent ?

A woman hit my dad with her car and he was a pedestrian. hes not going to make it. can i sue her?

I really don't know where to begin with suing. Were in the hospice house with my father now just waiting for him to pass. I want to make sure he has a nice funeral and everything and feel that the woman who killed him should pay.

Greek Life? Pre-Med? Biology Major? Should I do it?

Well being in the greek community I'm a little biased but i always recommend that everyone at least rushes. If you find a good group of people you like in a sorority I say go for it. Not only does it help with partying but people will help you with homework and employers and graduate schools like people who are in the greek system.

How do I help my father cope with his mother's death?

Help him to make some good memories in the time they have left - little things like games of scrabble, looking through photo albums together, get her to tell you all those secret recipes and write them down. Take some photos of you and other family members into the hospice - your grandmother's memory may be affected by her medications, and being in a new place will unsettle her. Take morning tea in with you to share together. You sound very mature for your age. The best help you can give is to be yourself and share your youth and love of life with your Dad and Grandad to help them remember that life is an ongoing journey, they will absorb some of your happiness even if they can't feel any themselves.

I Need a sad CANADIAN book?

For my english class, I need to read a Novel/book or whatever by a canadian author. I want to have one about someone dying of cancer or something. The reason is because afterwards, I have to relate the story to a song, and I have the perfect album to use. ( The Antlers- Hospice) Not too long, not too short.

Estate situation, may require lawyer, not much money involved?

Contact the Probate Court. There is already a lawyer working on this case and they can tell you who it is.

Could someone answer this question?

Explain why the civil rights movement emerged in northern Ireland in the 1960s In your answer refer to the bullet points and use other relevant knowledge?

Have a question about cancer... (Please read)?

Not at all. My Husband's Mother had Pancreas Cancer, and she didn't become angry. She slept most of the time. I am sure he is "Irritated" Because he is in pain, and knows he's dying. He's just "Frustrated". It's a normal feeling, but not "Caused" By Pancreas Cancer.He will most likely have about a month left to a few weeks. But don't be surprised if he suddenly gets a surge of energy, where he wants to eat, and talk. It's just his body's way of preparing for death.

Need help with situation in caring for my father who is dying of prostate cancer.?

My dad has been living with me and my family for 4 years and has had prostate cancer for 14. My husband works out of town and will not be back until fall so it is me and my two young daughters. Hospice is involved. He has declined very suddenly, has stopped eating and hardly ever drinks. I know his time is very limited. Sometimes it is very stressful. I feel very guilty (too guilty to bring this up to hopsice) but I know soon he will loose control of his bowels. I am not at all comfortable with cleaning him up after accidents. Any advice welcome. Thank you.

What is THE best and THE worst thing to happen to/for your family this month?

I have a cyst inside of my uterus which caused me to have a chemical pregnancy in November and February. I just had another one last night. The good news is that now that I've had a third miscarriage the doctor has agreed to finally remove the cyst. So hopefully I'll get pregnant this month and it will stick.

I am going to a Hospice house to visit a dying man?

I really don't want to see him, (He is unconscious) so its not like he will know if im there, him and his wife have been long time friends but we don't see each other very often, so i want to visit with the wife and offer my condolences, Do you think it would be rude to tell her that i really don't want to see him in his condition, i want to remember him how i saw him when he was alive and well? What would you do or say?

Can you have dogs inside when hospice is over (couple Qs, I just really need help with this)?

As long as your dogs are friendly they can be inside. These people are coming over for your Grandfathers comfort and will not care about your home being spotless. Many moms and kids worry about how their home will appear to others. Its drastic but you could always get clippers and shave them down while hospice is coming.

Dealing with something terrible?

My best friend and I have been friends since the first day of Kindergarten, we grew up together...When we were in the 5th grade, her mom began noticing a lump in her breast, at first, the doctor said it was nothing-and 6 months later, they found out she had Category 4 Breast Cancer...Three years later, the cancer has spread through her bones, and is now in her spine, it is slowly working its way up into her brain. Her mom is way too young to be dying of cancer, she just turned 40!! I feel horrible for my friend, tomorrow her mom goes to find out if she is going to continue Chemo/Radiation, or just stop treatments and call Hospice. How do I help my friend during this time? We're only 14, and just about to be Freshman in High School, her poor family shouldn't have to deal with something like this!

Friday, August 5, 2011

Outlook for Medical School?

Consider retaking the Govt class if there's no penalty to your GPA for retaking a class. (A penalty would be very unusual, as almost all universities want as much money as they can get.)

Can I get into St. George's Medical School with a 3.4 gpa?

My freshman year started a bit rough due to a terrible roommate. The following year I was on the dean's list and I plan to graduate in two years with a bachelors degree in Interdisciplinary Health with a minor in biology and a 3.4 cumulative gpa. I have always had an extreme interest in the medical field. I currently work as a Nurse Assistant to get my experience in. I have also worked in a cadaver lab and was not the least bit squeamish! I also volunteer at a hospice and have been involved with biology research at my university. Do I stand a chance to get into St. George's medical school? Where else should I apply! I'm so nervous about this upcoming process :(

How do you take off bauer inline skates' wheels?

The skates have two screws on each side and I have matching Allen wrenches that fit but when I take one screw off, the other one just spins with the grooved rod through the wheel that holds the screws. I have tried turning the screws at the same time and I've tried holding one with a wrench and taking the other screw off like that and neither works. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! My skates are over 3 yrs old and desperately needs new wheels so any ideas that come to mind would be awesome!!!! Thank you!!!

I really want to have a baby but...?

Volunteer at a church nursery, daycare or babysit for friends and relatives. That will definitely get rid of the baby urge for now. You really should finish college, get a job in your career field, and live a little before having a baby. Life as you know it will end once a baby comes. If your BF says he is not ready then the worst thing to do is push a baby on him. Babies add stress to relationships, not bring you closer. So you need to be solid in your relationship (hopefully married) and in your life before being responsible for another human being.

I don't know what to do about my grandmother dying?

My grandma's cancer is everywhere. She's in a Hospice right now, and I spoke to her today. She didn't say anything back to me. I told her about how much I love her, some of our memories and I sang to her. She's going to die very soon. When my aunt said goodbye to her, my grandma said "I love you" but she didn't say it to me. I just don't know what to do, she's so important to me. How can I prepare for when she really dies?

Should I move on past my ex?

So about four days ago my ex fiancee of six years and I split up. I decided to move 12 hours away with my child to clear my head. The break up was me thinking he was cheating and pulling away from me and him saying for two months he had thought long and hard and said he hadn't loved me in two years and it would be best for me to leave. He said by leaving our negative environment wouldn't affect our ten month old baby.a couple days Later however he said the break was bc I couldn't be patient enough to leave him be ie give him enough space, not push him and nag him and just be patient for him to work for his promotion. He let me take our daughter away as well without a fight. He also told me that he never thought we could be together again however I ask him in maybe a couple months if we could reconcile once we have had space he tells me he doesn't know bc two months is a long time. Aother big issue we had was about two months ago he started texting this girl all the time and I found out through a phone bill. I asked him to stop but he said he's a grown *** man and does what he wants and I need to trust him. The issue escalated when one night he went out and I saw call records showing he was texting her non stop and then they stopped so I assumed he was with her and cheated on me. Later on I felt like a horses *** bc I found out he never cheated I was just making up my theories. My question is do you think space might heal this? Why is he still texting this girl all the time and what could she mean to him? This girl lives in a city he will leave shortly for a promotion so I don't think he's looking for long term with her. If I do no contact with him other than discussing his daughter will he change his mind? It'd hard bc he will say something like I won't change my mind and then says he wants to keep in contact and he even texted me the other day to tell me about his job promotion which isn't relevant to me since we are broken up. I just get confused bc he says he doesn't want me yet he texted me to make sure we got to our destination okay and is worried about us. So, should I give him a couple months to figure out what we both want? Or should I move on bc all signs are pointing to an end? Also we have broken up once before and within a month and a half we were back on bc we missed each other so much. I just feel that if he didn't have some feelings left he wouldn't even bother talking to me at all. I think just how difficult it has been lately is why he said those things or could it be an influence of this new girl? Please respond....I want my family back so bad but don't want to sit around waiting for him if I don't have a chance.

Will someone interpret my dream?

I was falling from the ceiling into a chair made of what looked to be cellulite or cottage cheese or something... I just remember smelling this overwhelming odor. It smelled like Old Spice & cigarettes & some kind of candy. It was a good smell, but I just started crying... and at that moment, I realized I was in a waiting room in a hospital & I didn't know why or what I was there to see. I just sat there picking at my EXTREMELY elastic-like skin. Then, the nurse at the front desk called me into the back. So I stood, not really knowing where I was going. I walked down a long hallway with floating black balloons but i had to keep ducking underneath them because the strings would sting me like jellyfish. So I made it to the end of the hallway and walked through the door and into a room made of windows that was up really high. There was this lady I had never met lying in a hospital bed, but the bed was made of school desks covered in tarps, but they looked like newspapers. There were these bugs & spiders crawling out of her like she wasn't even alive. I tried to ask her who she was, but no sound would come from my mouth no matter how much I screamed. A nurse came in & put a straight jacket on me...and quickly, the straight jacket became stained with blood. I asked the nurse why, & she said that bleeding without wounds was a side effect of the glue I had ingested. So I opened my mouth & all this dust & birds flew out, and the birds were holding little bags of Elmer's Glue. Then I look over at the lady, and she looked older. I looked in the mirror that randomly appeared, and realized I was older as well. I looked around & realized I was in a museum of my writings, but they started melting & then I was back in the waiting room holding a black balloon, wearing rubber gloves that said "Hospice."

Need help with kawasaki bayou 220?

the gear shifting pedal on my 4 wheeler has stripped off the rod coming out of the trans. all of the grooves have been worn smooth. would anyone know how much it would cost to have the transmission taken apart to have the rod replaced? and a new pedal? thanks for any help.

What is better jogging or power walking?

Jogging is better cuz it keeps your heart rate up but if you do the mix you will not burn out as cast witch will actually be better

Comfort when a loved one dies?

God is God of the living, not the dead (Mark 12:27). Your GF is alive and well in a spiritual body (we have 2 bodys - flesh and spirit as seen in 1st Corinthians 15:40-44). Scriptures s/a Ecclesiastes 12:7 and 2nd Corinthians 5:7-8 teach us that instantly at the death of the flesh body, the spirit body returns to the Lord who gave it. Our heavenly Father is a God of love. He loves HIs children. Even the sinful malefactor on the cross beside Christ went instantly to paradise upon death of his flesh (Luke 23:39-43). Your GF is in peace. Live a good Christian life and make him proud.

Would I be able to have my ear re-pierced after this...?

Yeah you can, I've re-pierced my cartilage 3 times and it's just fine. However, I decided to take it out and I have a super tiny, non noticeable bump on my ear, but that's because I didn't use a hallow needle (which is recommended for cartilage).

The bone near my eye F*CKING HURTS!?

You may have hit the spot that hurts or something and broke a bone there? Im not sure but go to the er its prob a easy fix

Do you think gender exists in a spiritual sense?

I personally believe what gender is not relevant to the spiritual self in any way, shape or form and is only a physical and societal thing. As in, without a physical being and without the influence of society would gender exist or do you think its a false creation? I do realize people may have different or no spiritual beliefs but if you relate i'd appreciate opinions.

Could it be cancer? HELP!!!!?

To try and cut a long story short, I was having seriously excruciating pains in my side so I had scans and it showed a tumour on my gall bladder! Since then I have been having scans 1s a month to check the rate of growth, the doctor told me it is growing at an abnormal rate and is now bigger than the gall bladder itself! I am having my gall bladder completely taken out next week so they can do a biopsy on the tumour! I am only 20 and soooo scared as I haven't even had an operation before! I also volunteer at my local marie curie cancer hospice and see young people dieing of cancer on a daily basis, I am soo scared and don't no what to do! Could this realy be cancer? It seems so surreal! Thankyou for reading xx

I'm 3 weeks late for my period and every time I try to eat it feels like my stomach is so full it's going to?

explode,though I'm really hungry and i'm not sure if this is relevant but I have weird rashes on my legs. I want to know if theres something wrong with me or if I'm paranoid.

MMR Shot for Adults? Necessary? SAFE?

if it were me - i would get the shots - not all vaccinations last for life - better safe than sorry - some hospital workers have to renew every 5 years and all have to be tested

Does anyone know of any kind of group or organization that a teenager could do during the academic school year?

I’m a sixteen year old, who just finished my sophomore year of high school. I’ve had a rough last couple of years with peers. I also would like to raise some more awareness to adolescents lives on subjects that I feel a lot of adults talk to kids about but the kids don’t listen to them because of the age difference, like bullying (I just recently had a peer whom I went to school with for 10 years just hang them self because their whole life they have been bullied), drugs, and alcohol. What I am looking for is a new beginning. In life I feel my calling is to help others. I love feeling needed by someone. For free time after school I volunteered at places like hospice and Salvation Army. I love to be social and in situations I try to imagine myself in others situations to get a feel for what’s going on. I’m looking for, for my junior year to have a new beginning, totally fresh start. I’m currently enrolled in virtual school so I’m looking to move somewhere else where I would be needed. I’m looking for somewhere with decent weather, not somewhere that snows. I'm looking for a volunteering group or position.

Inside barrel of a 12 gauge...?

As long as the edges have been smoothed by sanding, the depth of a scratch will naturally be outside of the normal bore diameter, and therefore will not interfere with the passing of a projectile. If it feels smooth, you're good to go.

I am wanting to know if I have a right to be mad at my sister in law?

Here is a little background. My husband and I have been married nearly three years. He has adopted my child a six year old. His mother is dying of cancer right now she is on hospice at home and is not doing good at all. She is remarried and her husband has grandchildren as well. The sister in law takes over only one of my father in laws grandchildren and does not show any of the other children the same kindness. She acts gets this child every other weekend and when she has her acts like this is her child. Also on FB her and her friends put update all the time about my mother in law but do not include my husband for example one of her close friends put please pray for Becky(my MIL who is sick) and continue to pray for the "girls" and Gary (my father in law) Another thing they ordered shirts to raise money for my mother in laws expenses and we did not order our shirts the first day they put them on sale but took her the money the next day well our shirts did not get ordered. She said they will be ordered the next time which will be the next week. So my husband goes to work today and his mother worked at the same place when she was able well everyone has on their shirts today. Then he went to the bank where my sister in law works at and they all have on the shirts as well at the bank. Then he goes to the other bank in town where we have a loan and he needed to pay they all have the shirts as well. I understand about waiting on mine and my childs and my mothers and grandmothers shirts can wait but you are not telling me she could have not swapped out my husbands order for someone elses, and got them on the next round? Am I just overreacting? Also my husband went to visit his mom a couple of days ago and she was able to open her eyes and speak to him just a hello but she had not spoke in five days well later that afternoon the sister in law puts on FB "I guess I am just going to move in with mom, she had another good morning and talked to Wesley (my husband) and Gary(FIL) I miss eveything" This is just really making me mad and I dont want to say anything to her because their mom is dying but I am tired of her treating my family like we are nothing to them. What do I need to do?

How long will it take for me to learn bass?

Hey guys, I was thinking about picking up a bass guitar! I love Bass I love the groove and everything it's just so awesome, it adds epicness to songs. I'm almost level-4 in piano and I play school cello for two years now (not an experienced player) and I can read tabs on guitar and play simple songs like "Smells Like Teen Spirit." However, I suck at tuning my guitar so I can't tune my guitar to play all the songs that I like. I was wondering, on bass do you have to do that or are you on standard the whole time? If I get a bass guitar I'll play it about two-three hours each day, I'll put a lot of time and dedication but how long would it take to learn bass parts to pop rock songs or songs like "She Will Be Loved" by Maroon 5? And how long would it take to learn "Hysteria" by Muse on Bass?

My Dad Just Died, came home from the funeral to discover my boyfriend cheated on me and he broke up with me?

sorry for your loss hun. He was playing the guilt trip!! ( as they say the ones that lie always try to play the victim) He also trying the control thing on you by saying you will never find anyone better than him (B***S***) he basically wants his cake and eat it too. He cheated and he is demanding. Keep him out of your life and if he begs to come back say HELL NO!!!!! You deserve way better and have someone that respects you and loves you for you. Once a cheater always a cheater and IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO THINK ABOUT TAKING HIM BACK!!! remember he cheated and it will take a long time to trust him and you will always be wondering what he is doing behind you back so you would never be happy. Hope this helps hun :)

How long does express shipping take?

i bought insanity 60 day thingy on may 31st morning and it says it left from fedex at june 1st so i was going to ask how long would it take? it departed from groove city in ohio and i live in bedford,TX and its express shipping so i wanted to noe how long would it take to ge there in bedford??

Suggest me some good/cool/funky names for a social networking site.?

Do not take the names which are existing already such as twitter.etc i want good names such as orkut and facebook so please give a relevant answer.

Why is yahoo less relevant than google?

is it because Google founders were White men and one of the founders of yahoo is an Asian man along with a White man

If you enter a room and there are two identical doors. One with a guard........?

that protects to path to heaven. The other a guard that protects hell. In order to enter you must ask one relevant question what would that question be?

My grandad has about 1-3 weeks left to live, need help dealing with this, any advice/personal stories?

hey everyone. my grandad has small cell lung cancer, and has had it for about a year and a half. now, in just a matter of like 2 weeks, he cant walk anymore, cant pee, so we had a catheter put in, has hospice, and gets a new symptom everyday. lately he is calling the sky home. he is confined to his chair and hospital bed. he is at home. my grandparents live with us. me and my mom are the only ones strong enough to be able to lift him up, because now he is complete dead weight. he cant support himself at all anymore, and cant walk, nothing. we have to pick him up and try to get him stable on his feet while still holding him up, just so he can use the bedside potty hospice gave us. lately he keeps telling us im tired i want to go home. and then he points up after we ask where is home and he points up and says thats home. and he's talking to people that have died a long time ago and having conversations with them, and telling us they are waiting for him to go home. he has at the most maybe 2 weeks. he gets worse everyday. he is my BESTFRIEND and the only man that has been stable in my whole life. He never got to see me drive, im thankful that he's here still for my 18th birthday, but we're losing him. my question is, has anybody else been through this like this? i dont need smart-*** answers like yes people have gone through this. this is the hardest thing ive been through in my life, and ive been through some really really hard times. i need advice on this, or any personal stories?

Why does the bone near my temple ache?

I am NOT a doctor, but when I chew, and smile, I get the same pain there, Maybe you did that to much XD

Renovating basement, keep original studs or do this instead?

There should be something that separates the wood from the concrete. The concrete is porous so it such as water up and will rot the wood. If there is nothing separating it, take all the wood out and do it again the right way.

I need tattoo ideas? Please?

Okay, so if youre planning on commenting things like... "If you have to get on yahoo to figure out what you want for a tattoo then you don't need one" or anything along those lines, don't even bother. I'm serious about getting a tattoo that I'll love, I just need ideas.. I'm not too creative. Anyway, I want to get a tattoo in January, and I want it to be relevant to my life or just life in general. I like non-clich� quotes or meaningful song lyrics, and I'm also a dancer. Please please just throw out some ideas. Thankssss