My Dad Just Died, came home from the funeral to discover my boyfriend cheated on me and he broke up with me?

sorry for your loss hun. He was playing the guilt trip!! ( as they say the ones that lie always try to play the victim) He also trying the control thing on you by saying you will never find anyone better than him (B***S***) he basically wants his cake and eat it too. He cheated and he is demanding. Keep him out of your life and if he begs to come back say HELL NO!!!!! You deserve way better and have someone that respects you and loves you for you. Once a cheater always a cheater and IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO THINK ABOUT TAKING HIM BACK!!! remember he cheated and it will take a long time to trust him and you will always be wondering what he is doing behind you back so you would never be happy. Hope this helps hun :)